User blog comment:Wyvern Queen Kym/A Beginner's Guide to Love Interests/@comment-137.48.219.121-20120719000555/@comment-24.185.255.137-20120730033217

current rumors: it's possible to have another npc override your initial love interest as long as he/she has max affinity

basically anyone with whom you have max affinity has an equal chance to be your lover or your beach lover regardless of who or when was chosen first or second

dragon's dogma love system = completely by chance/probability = random