User blog comment:Soldierscuzzy/Got Questions? The Dragon's Dogma Developers Have Answers/@comment-5178481-20120625083608/@comment-152.121.18.252-20120625130315

For the gift part just give the Pawn the item, but make sure they equip what you want to send over or sometimes it just gliches and becomes a rock, 100% safe way to send a gift let the Pawn equip the item you want to send.

You really can't you just have to fight the Ur-Dragon with group of friend to better chance your chance of getting the drops.