User blog comment:AntonyAV/Dead Flower - Talent in bloom/@comment-31990084-20180826172216

I myself can't help you since i'm using an xbox one, but can provide a bit of insight at least. Trading works by hiring someone elses pawn and then gifting them the intended item when you release their pawn from your employ. Equipment can also be traded by equipping it to another person's pawn and then releasing that pawn from your service. There are item exceptions to this such as being unable to gift bitterblack isle items after purification. I'm not sure if the blessed flower (what you're looking for) can be traded or not since it is a quest item, though there have been plenty of others asking the same thing you have. The other thing is that in order for someone to look up your pawn they will likely need your steam user name as that is the easiest way I can think of for someone to find your specific pawn. Does the 100 hours playing include new game+? If not then you could simply finish the game and restart it like that. All the quests get reset but you keep your level and items. Then you have your opportunity to get the blessed flower again.