Forum:My pawn not showing up on friends game

I can see his pawn, hire his pawn, and release, it but it will not let me trade with it. It has what looks to be a gift box with an x over it. Assuming that means I can't trade. But the real issue is that my pawn seems to be non exsitant on his world. He can't find my main pawn, but I can find his. Any ideas? It shows him as on dragons dogma DA. Which I have as well.