Talk:Ur-Dragon/@comment-73.171.252.192-20150426090848/@comment-25161269-20150524022057

I know that this is a bit late (almost a month), but I feel as if the underlying point had been missed in all of this. One person had asked for help or free items. That's fine. Regretfully, I've had to do it too, simply because my life is already so busy that I can't sit around for hours on end waiting for Grace to happen. I knew that I couldn't get those Abyssinal Armor sets, and so I asked for a bit of help. No harm in that. Well, Karathrax was nice enough to give me a set, and she didn't berate me for not trying.

So I hate to say it, but it seems to me that you didn't respond nicely to this person's request. You don't know if this person has a busy schedule, and doesn't have time to sit there and grind for possibly obscene amounts of time. But instead of possibly asking why, you assumed he was lazy. I'm sorry, but I've gotta say that AeonsLegend is correct here.

You two are obviously veterans, I know. I've been at lvl 200 for a while now, and I know how hard it is to get really good items. Believe me, I know (damn Bitterblack armor sets...). But as veterans, I feel that there's a certain etiquette you should display towards newer players. Instead of saying what you did, you could've asked if he needed help, better pawns, etc. But unfortunately, you came off as abrasive. When first reading this thread, it felt like you shot him down faster than a WWII bomber.

So if anything, do try to display a more courteous response to people asking for help, especially non-users. If you are an asshole to people like that, then this Wiki's reputation will suffer.